Testimonials
After a 3 day long labour with my first baby, I felt I needed to take a different approach to this pregnancy and labour. We really wanted a home birth as our hospital experience previously wasn’t great and I needed to convince myself that I could do it without any pain relief! Sophie is an amazing teacher and tailored and taught her course to suit us and our thoughts on childbirth – she gave me all the tools I needed to feel confident that I could labour at home and to control things in my own way and control the pain through meditation, relaxation and visualisation. Mark and I both felt so confident after practising the techniques and I was really looking forward to labour (and ended up really enjoying it!!).
Our daughter Romy was born in our lounge, in the birthing pool. I was very lucky and had a 3 1/2 hour labour, but mostly I think the speed and enjoyment of it was that I was positive my body would cope with it all and I felt immense confidence that everything was going to be ok – mainly down to the HypnoBirthing® preparation. The relaxation techniques were amazing during pregnancy too to chill me out and get my head in the space it needed to be for birthing. Our lives are so busy, but I think it’s so important to give yourself the time to mentally prepare for labour and get rid of any anxiety – us women are made for it!!
Sophie is a calm, gentle and understanding mentor and I’m not sure I would have has such a positive experience without her help!
Helen
Amy, mother of Layla
Susanne, mother of Max
Clare, mother of Arthur
Simone, mother of Holly
Neela, mother of Asha
Kate, mother of Annie
“I could hear the ambulance team discussing how I was the calmest labouring mother they had picked up in a long time!”
“I would recommend this to anyone who is up for the challenge and keen to give their babies a natural start in life.”
I wasn’t sure what I was looking for at the beginning of my pregnancy but as the birth came ever closer and I read more and talked to more people, I realised I was looking for a natural birth.
I realised I believe in the idea that childbirth is a natural thing and should not have to end up a medical fiasco, but as I read on, I could feel the worries and concerns building up as each book warned me of all the potential problems of childbirth. Any mother-to-be could be forgiven for becoming hysterical and panicky if she believes all she reads and the horror stories she hears.
I met Sophie through a mutual friend and after discussing our thoughts and ideas she initially gave us a book to read outlining the ideas behind HypnoBirthing. A nose through the book confirmed that this was the method for us and we signed up with Sophie for the full course – probably the best move we made! The course consisted of 5 x 2.5 hour sessions held at our house in the evenings. We were expertly guided through the background of negativity and medical intervention in childbirth through the ages; the ideas behind HypnoBirthing; visualizations, relaxation and breathing techniques, and preparing for the birth.
We experienced relaxation in the sessions, which I would have doubted I was capable of before, but Sophie’s fantastically relaxing tones even put my partner (and our dog) to sleep on occasion. She provided us with a selection of tools to use during labour and birth and as we approached our due date I felt confident and positive.
We opted for a home birth and were ready with a birthing pool, TENS machine, a selection of music, massage techniques etc. Of course when my membranes released at 11pm and everything started happening in a hurry, we didn’t have time for any of it except for some of the breathing and massage techniques and different positions Sophie had shown us during our sessions. I started visualising and breathing and we timed the surges: already about 4 minutes apart – no build up or anything. By the time we called the midwife a couple of hours later (just to be checked out and fully believing that she would tell us to go back to bed and call in the morning), she informed me after the first check that I was already 8cm dilated and she hurriedly started preparing the room and called for the second midwife to come immediately.
Things became more intense. We hadn’t had time to put the pool up and in the excitement of the moment we couldn’t get the TENS machine to work, but I found that some light touch massage and encouragement from my partner, his hand on my lower back and a deep focus on breathing was enough to see me through each surge.
My daughter had positioned herself correctly the week before but this week had decided to shift round a bit to a position where she could either go back a little and take the easy route, or do the full twist and go the long route… of course she chose the latter.
Somewhere near 5.30am, the midwives informed me that my blood pressure had gone up and that they would feel more comfortable transferring us just for security. In between surges, we had an amazingly lucid conversation about not having intervention, decided to wait a bit and see if things improved and then finally made the decision to follow their advice. They were extremely reassuring that this was just a precaution and things would continue the way we wanted them to: on a natural tip.
I walked to the ambulance and lay down. The journey was no more than 5 minutes but I could hear the ambulance team discussing how I was the calmest labouring mother they had picked up in a long time!
In the hospital, the midwives were true to their word, and set up everything just as it had been at home – they brought a birthing ball, suggested active positions to try and I hardly noticed the change in environment. All the changes and movements probably contributed to a natural birth 40 minutes later. I caught the baby and it looked up at me with wide eyes: what a greeting! The baby was put directly onto my stomach for skin to skin and all 3 of us huddled together on the bed for a timeless moment before someone asked whether it was a boy or girl – we hadn’t even looked.
We both feel totally in awe of the whole experience and really pleased to have given our daughter a natural, drug-free entrance into this world. Of the 7 couples in our antenatal class, we were the only ones not to have some kind of intervention. We are both proud of ourselves and our beautiful daughter and couldn’t have done it without Sophie’s help, reassurance and guidance along the way.
I would recommend this to anyone who is up for the challenge and keen to give their babies a natural start in life.
Tamara, mother to Nina,

